Male Multiple Orgasm - Part 3

Today we discuss the importance of Talking To Your Partner About Male Multiple Orgasm.

Making love to a multiorgasmic man is not business as usual. The intensity of responses and performance abilities can be quite startling to a woman who is used to a one-orgasm guy.

Women are not big believers in surprises when it comes to sex. If there is a woman in your life right now, we need to make sure that she is every bit as prepared and every bit as committed to the process as you are. Sex doesn't happen in a vacuum. It happens between two people. Your needs are important, but the needs of the couple come first.

Hopefully, your partner will want to the process and take an active role in your development. Or maybe she'd rather just wait on the sidelines and reap the benefits at the end. That's fine too. It's up to both of you to decide what you're most comfortable with. But either way, your partner needs to know what's going on and you need to know that you have her support. A lot of changes are about to take place. Your attitude toward sex is about to change. Your attitude toward yourself is about to change. So are your abilities, your physiology, and your level of desire. Your partner has got a lot to reckon with.

If these changes are not discussed in advance, your efforts could backfire. If you try to keep the whole thing a secret, yourpartner could feel very left out. She might get confused, or insecure, or even angry. If she's used to Old Faithful, any kind of radical change could be quite disconcerting. She might even fear that you are having an affair and learning things from some other woman.

You are learning techniques to enhance your relationship with your partner. The purpose of learning to become multiorgasmic is to bring you and your partner closer together. It is supposed to improve your relationship, not threaten it. You want your transformation to ignite your partner, not scare her. That's why I want you two to have a conversation, and I want you to have it as soon as possible after you have finished reading this series for the first time.

Talk to your partner. Tell her what you're up to, and don't withhold anything. Give her as much information as possible. Let her know why this is important to you. Tell her what your goals are, being sure to explain the benefits you can foresee for the relationship. It is very important that she knows you are doing this for both of you. Finally, tell her how important it is for you to have her support.

Male Multiple Orgasm Should Bring a Couple Together

Some women want to make love for hours at a time, whereas some are happiest when it's short and simple. The typical woman hasdifferent needs and desires on different days. What about your partner? What does she like, what does she want, and how might her needs vary from day to day and week to week? You need to know this information, and your conversation about embarking on this program is an ideal time to find out. Frankly, it's the only way both of you will fully benefit from your newfound talents. Otherwise, you may be doing all kinds of things that your partner simply isn't interested in.

Don't get me wrong. Your needs are important. But you must always remember that your partner's needs are equally important.There is nothing more unpleasant than a man who is just doing his thing, oblivious to what the woman really wants. Being a great lover means more than just tuning into your own body. Being a great lover means tuning into your partner's body too, and even more important, it means tuning into her mind.

The beauty of being multiorgasmic is that it gives you the kind of sexual flexibility you've never experienced before. For the first time, you can get tremendous pleasure without sacrificing any of your partner's needs. Your experience will be much more intense, but you're also going to help make hers more intense. You're doing wonderful things for yourself, but you also can attend to her in ways you never could before. No one has to make huge compromises or be shortchanged.

When you and your partner have your talk, it is very important to talk about your needs, but it is probably even more important to talk about her needs. Let her tell you what she wants and what she doesn't want. Does anything make her uncomfortable? Is there anything she fears? Listen carefully to her answers, and don't assume anything. You may be surprised to discover that you know less about your partner than you think. This is a wonderful opportunity to express your caring and develop more closeness, and I encourage you to take advantage of it.

If your partner has a lot of questions about her specific role in your "training," reading through the exercices should give her the answers she is looking for. As you read through each partner exercise (some exercises do not require a partner), you will note that both the man's role and the woman's role are always clearly addressed. I highly recommend that both partners read the exercises, even if the woman is not going to participate.

Every woman is different, and there is no way I can predict how your partner is going to respond. I hope she wants to make this a joint venture, so to speak. I say this because When a woman gets involved in the process it makes everything a lot more exciting for both partners. But, as I said before, it isn't necessary for a woman to help her man learn these new techniques; she only needs to be there at the finish line with a big smile on her face